Change requires that I alter my behavior patterns. Maybe I need to follow through with commitments, call a friend, be there for the committee meetings. It’s not just sitting through the meeting, it’s being willing to do whatever needs to be done.  I have to pick up that very heavy phone and let others know if I am unable to make it to the meeting. I need to back up and apologize when I have made a mistake, and I need to be willing to do whatever is needed to be done, when dealing with the issue of my sobriety.  Healing is the result of the willingness to grow and change. First believe it can happen, and secondly, do whatever it takes.